This process is vital in minimizing misunderstanding and potential conflict, 1) especially when very careful communication is required, and 2) in emotionally charged exchanges, to minimize co-triggering defensive / offensive verbal "bomb throwing," in which people are pushing an agenda and cannot truly hear, absorb, understand, and empathize with the other person.
This process is for people who truly want to be mutually helpful, and reap the priceless overall benefits, rewards, peace and prosperity that come from doing that. And cognitive biases can be THE BIG OBSTACLES to getting along / being mutually helpful with other people. Study those! It is extremely helpful to know about them and keep them in mind, to avoid the harmful ones as much as possible.
The Plan, above, in the menu, is based on this observation: Everyone helps themselves by far the most, overall, by simply helping other people the most they feel they can afford to, physically, mentally, and emotionally. - At the very least by simply not bothering the vast majority of everyone in the world. And everyone does that in some way, non-stop, 24/7. But humanity has so far mostly wasted that world's-by-far-most value-creating-process by NOT promoting it above all else, mostly due to cognitive bias. This plan is designed to fix that problem in the fastest, easiest, free way possible. - Tim Mossman Copyright © 2024 Helpaboveall.org